It is true that we always meet a stranger from internet networking like Facebook, MySpace or Friendster. These strangers will ask questions about yourself, your family, your studies and in the same time will ask to face-to-face. This is friend-networking, not a speed-dating! Moreover what happened if 'this ' stranger is a real psycho? We never know what lies inside the human's thought. Everyday from news, we can see "Women conned RMxxx thousand", "Young girl missing/ raped". All these mostly happen to females, so girls out there BEWARE!!! This is a serious case.
If asked for my opinion, well, the top which I would said is "Deactivate your account!" which is mostly 98% (over 100) people would done it. If we deactivate them, then what's the point to go in Internet? The second part, choose your internet friend wisely. Approve only friend request if you really know them or the profile is quite reliable to make a friend. Which mean, have to based on your sixth-sense. Your profile should put something general and not too specific details. For example, you can said you stayed in which town but not your complete address! Third, make a different personalities when making new friend with this 'stranger'. It's not mean faking your profiles. But I always making a fake profiles and personalities when chatting with different individuals. Its up to them to believe or not. Just don't make the false statement into a big difference of yourself. Never exposed too much details to them, always kept a gap in between. After knowing for quite a long time, just decide to meet up or not.
For safety, place to meet up should be a crowded place or bring a friend of yours. Discuss this matter with your reliable friend (mostly not with parents as they will protest),so that if you're missing, at least someone know what happen to you. NEVER met up during night! Although how busy the 'stranger' is, try to keep it on day. Wear casually, not too over.
Example for myself, a 2x years old girl had met a lot of internet guys and girls also. It's not a big deal for me since I'm using different personalities and different phone numbers. It's a precautions! Also using different account profile to get close to them is another trick. Don't make too obvious, practice by practice can make perfect ^^ Strangers are always strangers. Friend is friend. *note the way I'm using 's'*
What about guys being conned? If that so, then you should look at the mirror and asked yourself why you being conned? Don't make excuses that somehow you're handsome or rich. Keep it for yourself! You are just too stupid. Should realize that girls nowadays is not east to bullied. Go Go Girlssss~
No comments:
Post a Comment