It is true that we always meet a stranger from internet networking like Facebook, MySpace or Friendster. These strangers will ask questions about yourself, your family, your studies and in the same time will ask to face-to-face. This is friend-networking, not a speed-dating! Moreover what happened if 'this ' stranger is a real psycho? We never know what lies inside the human's thought. Everyday from news, we can see "Women conned RMxxx thousand", "Young girl missing/ raped". All these mostly happen to females, so girls out there BEWARE!!! This is a serious case.
If asked for my opinion, well, the top which I would said is "Deactivate your account!" which is mostly 98% (over 100) people would done it. If we deactivate them, then what's the point to go in Internet? The second part, choose your internet friend wisely. Approve only friend request if you really know them or the profile is quite reliable to make a friend. Which mean, have to based on your sixth-sense. Your profile should put something general and not too specific details. For example, you can said you stayed in which town but not your complete address! Third, make a different personalities when making new friend with this 'stranger'. It's not mean faking your profiles. But I always making a fake profiles and personalities when chatting with different individuals. Its up to them to believe or not. Just don't make the false statement into a big difference of yourself. Never exposed too much details to them, always kept a gap in between. After knowing for quite a long time, just decide to meet up or not.
For safety, place to meet up should be a crowded place or bring a friend of yours. Discuss this matter with your reliable friend (mostly not with parents as they will protest),so that if you're missing, at least someone know what happen to you. NEVER met up during night! Although how busy the 'stranger' is, try to keep it on day. Wear casually, not too over.
Example for myself, a 2x years old girl had met a lot of internet guys and girls also. It's not a big deal for me since I'm using different personalities and different phone numbers. It's a precautions! Also using different account profile to get close to them is another trick. Don't make too obvious, practice by practice can make perfect ^^ Strangers are always strangers. Friend is friend. *note the way I'm using 's'*
What about guys being conned? If that so, then you should look at the mirror and asked yourself why you being conned? Don't make excuses that somehow you're handsome or rich. Keep it for yourself! You are just too stupid. Should realize that girls nowadays is not east to bullied. Go Go Girlssss~
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28 November 2010
17 November 2010
叶子的离开,是因为风的追求,还是树的不挽留 Story-Line (repost)
这个故事真的百看不厌,我很和大家一起分享它。
这个故事在网上流传已久,已经不知道它的出处跟作者
里面有一句话我很喜欢,非常的吸引我:
「叶子的离开,是因为风的追求,还是树的不挽留。」
倘若你爱上一个人, 里面有一句话我很喜欢,非常的吸引我:
「叶子的离开,是因为风的追求,还是树的不挽留。」
千万别装作无所谓毫不在乎...
错过了,就没有了....
爱情,玩不起心理战的.......
我叫树
我是个喜欢画画的人,最爱画树。久而久之,我的画作右下方索性以一棵树来代表我。
高中三年,交过5个女朋友。有一个女孩子,我很爱她,却迟迟不敢追。她没有美丽的面孔,没有娇好的身材,没有撩人的魅力,一个再平凡不过的女孩子。我喜欢她,真的真的很喜欢她,喜欢她的单纯,她的直率,她的可爱,她的脆弱。
不追她的原因,也许是潜意识觉得平凡如她陪不上我;也许是因为怕在一起后一切的好感都会消失;也许是怕外人的指指点点伤害了她;也许是觉得会是我的,不用急着为了她而放弃一切。
最后的这个原因,让她陪了我三年,让她看着我和别的女孩子私混了三年,让她心痛了三年。
她很想当一个好演员,但我却像一个严格的导演。
我和第二个女朋友在厕所接吻,被她撞见,她尴尬地笑笑说:“呃,你们继续。”然后跑掉。第二天,她眼睛肿得跟核桃一样,我故意不去猜想是谁让她哭成这样,嘲笑了她一天。她在所有人都回家后,在教室哭了起来。她不知道,练球回来拿东西的我,看了她一个多小时。
我的第四个女朋友,一直很不喜欢她。有 次她们两个吵了起来,我知道,依她的个性不会去惹事,但我还是护着女朋友。她被我吼了一下后,愣住了,眼泪滑了下来。我无视她的眼泪,陪女友走出教室。第 二天,她依旧嘻嘻哈哈地和我开玩笑。我知道她很难过,但她不会知道,我的心不比她的好受。
当我和第五个女朋友分手时,我约她出去玩, 玩了一天,我对她说:“我有事要对你说”
她说:“真巧,我也有事要对你说。”
“我和她分手了。”
“我和他在一起了。”
我知道他是谁,他追她也有一阵子了,是个蛮可爱的男孩子,活泼有趣,充满了热情。追她追得满城风雨。我不能表现自己的心痛,只能笑笑地恭喜她。但当我回到 家,心中的痛楚强烈得让我无法承受,像有个千斤重的石头压在我胸口,我无法呼吸,想大叫却叫不出来。眼泪竟然滑了下来,我掩面大哭。多少次,我眼看着她,为了那个不愿承认的人,掩面大哭。
毕业典礼时我在手机上发现了一封简讯这是十天前,我掩面大哭时传来的,只是我一直没有去开过机。
叶子的离去,是因为风的追求,还是树的不挽留......
我叫叶子。
高中的时候喜欢收集叶子。你问我为什么,因为我觉得,一片叶子要离开她长期依赖的树,好勇敢呢! 高中三年我和一个男孩子很要好,不算男 女朋友那种好,是好朋友那种好。但是,在他交第一个女朋友的时候,我学会了一种不该有的感觉,心理里很酸,不是一个柠檬可以比喻的,那应该是一百个又臭又 酸的柠檬酸到不行。他们只在一起两个月,当他们分手,我还是掩饰自己心中强烈的喜悦。但是,一个月后,他又和另一个女孩子在一起了。
我喜欢他,也知道他喜欢我。可是,他为 什么总是不追求我呢?明明喜欢彼此,为什么不行动呢?每当她交一个女朋友我就心痛一次。一次又一次的打击让我不禁怀疑,这是我的一相情愿吗?不爱我为什么 要对我那么好,他对我的好,已经不是普通朋友可以做到的。喜欢一个人好难过哦。我可以清楚地知道他的喜好、他的习惯,惟独他对我的感觉,我猜不透。难道, 要我这样一个女孩子去对一个男孩子开口吗?
尽管如此,我还是想在他身边,关心他、 陪他、爱他也许算是一种等待的行为,等待他回来爱我,就像每天晚上等他的电话、等他的简讯。我知道就算他再忙也会拨出一些时间给我。这样的等待陪了我三 年,等待是难熬的,是令人想放弃的,但等到的那一刹那,让人第二天,会继续等下去。这样的煎熬,这样的痛苦,这样的幸福,这样的矛盾,陪了我三年。
直到三年级的下学期,高二一个学弟喜欢 上了我,每天的热情追求,令我从一开始的拒绝,渐渐地愿意挪出我心房的一些位置给他。他就像一阵温柔而持久的风,撩拨我这片摇摇欲坠的叶子。到最后,我竟 然发现,我已经不想只留一点点的位置给这阵风,我知道这阵风会带我这一片伤痕累累的叶子,到更幸福的地方去。
于是,我就离开了树。树只是笑笑,没有挽留。
「叶子的离开,是因为风的追求,还是树的不挽留?」
我叫风。
因为我喜欢的女孩子叫叶子,因为她有一棵令她依恋的树,所以,我要当一阵风,一阵呵护她的风。
第一次看见她,是高二,我转来一个月后的事了。个子小小的她,坐在球场边,一双眼凝视着和我同在球场的学长。每天的社团时间她总会坐在那里,一个人,和朋 友。她的眼光依旧凝视着他。当学长和女孩子打打闹闹,她的眼中会有泪;当学长看向她,她的眼中就有笑。看她成为了我的习惯,就像她爱看学长。
有一天她没来,我心中产生了没原由的焦虑与不安。我无法解释那种感觉,除了不安,还是不安。而且那学长竟然也不在,我冲去他们的教室,躲在外面,看着学长骂她。她的眼泪,学长的离去。
第二天,她依旧坐在场边,看着他。我走过去,对她笑一笑,拿了张纸条给她。她先是惊讶地看着我,然后,笑笑地收下。隔天,她拿着纸条,出现在我的面前。然后离开,
“叶子的心太沉重,风吹不动”
“不是叶子的心太沉重,是叶子根本就不想离开树”
我回给他这段话后,她渐渐会和我说话,收我的礼物,接我的电话。我知道,她喜欢的不是我,但我还是有毅力一定要让她喜欢上我。四个月内,我告白了不下二十次,每一次,她都转移话题。但我还是不会放弃,我决定要的人,我就一定会把她给追过来。
直到已不知第几次的告白出了口,虽然知道她一定又会说到别的事,但是还是有一丝丝希望她的答应。没想到,她都不说话了。
“你在干嘛?怎么不说话?”我对着话筒说。“我……我在点头啊。”
“阿?”我,我简直不敢相信自己的耳朵。“我在点头!”她大声叫道。
我甩开电话,匆匆披上一件衣服,踏上机车,冲去她的家,按门铃。当她开门的一刹那,紧紧地抱住她。
叶子的离开,是因为风的追求,还是树的不挽留?
Credit to : 叶子
3 November 2010
Understanding Some Computer Security
Found a project website by a student to student ^^ where the purpose is to teach different aspects of computer security. Many PC users found it is not safe to go Internet as hacker can hack into your lappie. But what the hacker really hack? So here I guess just simply briefing about the computer security. When you understand about it, you should know how to prevent them ^^ Good Luck~
First of all we start from Firewalls
Firewalls monitor incoming and outgoing online internet traffic on your computer. They examine incoming and outgoing data, acting like a filter to strain out the unwanted data and connections from the wanted data and connections. There are many excellent firewalls available for downloading off the internet for little or no charge.
A Firewall works similar to a door. It lets good things in and keeps the bad things out. Good firewalls will actively block any malicious incoming traffic while still allowing you to use the internet. Most firewalls will also prevent your computer from connecting to unwanted servers and from sending personal data to other computers or internet sites.
Now move to Internet Security
A major part of Internet security is having a firewall and anti-virus software. If a person stays on secure sites, and doesn't give out credit card numbers to any unsecure site to buy anything, they should be okay. When buy things on the Internet, one should stay on well-known sites with many users and traffic. This makes it harder for hackers to find credit card numbers and personal infromation. The software that is used by corporations is constantly getting better. It is more secure, almost impossible to hack into, and has excellent overall security. Encryption is used the popular web browsers, which makes it more secure.
What is Encryption?
Encryption is a security technique used to help prevent information from being intercepted on the internet. Encryption involves encoding any information sent between two computers so that only those two computers can read and understand the information. If a third party should happen to intercept the data, it would be illegible and completely useless without the key to unlock the code. Today, most popular browsers such as Netscape and Microsoft Internet Explorer contain encryption capabilities.
What to do when Downloading Security?
When downloading software or any data make sure you are on a trusted site. Also a firewall is a good protector from invasions through downloads. Anti-virus software is also a must when it comes to downloading any information or software from the internet. The anti-virus software can scan what you are downloading to make sure there are no viruses in the information or software you are receiving (I'm personally using Avast Anti-virus).
What Software?
Along with a firewall, software is the next most important block against hackers, viruses, etc. The most commonly used items today include: anti-trojan software and anti-virus software.
Anti-Trojan software reveals spys and hackers that are invading your computer privacy. A trojan is a program that is made up of two parts, the client and the server. Once you activate the server(clicking on it) it hides itself in your computer and opens all ports allowing hackers to access your computer. Some trojans steals passwords and send them to hackers through email. Also, some trojans allow the hacker to get into the hard drive which is very dangerous. But, the most dangerous and complicated trojan is the remote administration trojan, through this, the hacker can do about anything-seeing everything you type, all your passwords, dial up accounts, and pretty much anything they want.
Anti-Virus Software finds and deletes viruses from our computer files, and most anti-virus software will update itself for new viruses. Even if you have anti-virus software you should keep back-up files of your important data.
More info in Anti-Virus
Even before a person connects their computer to the internet they should have an excellent anti-virus software. Most of the good software out there today has a remote server that can automatically update your virus protection.
You can also install a scanner that stays in your memory and scans all files before you open them, this is especially handy when using floppy disks.
To fully fight viruses you must know how they work. How they infect other files. Viruses can be made by overwritting the beginning of the file replacing it with their own infected code; usually these viruses are easy to detect because the program itself won't work, just the virus will. They also can be made adding a jump to the end of the file, where its code is located, and then continuing with a jump back to the beginning where it left off; these are usually harder to detect except they use a little bit more memory. The last type is the virus attached to the beginning of the file, but it doesn't change the makeup of the original. This the hardest to detect but this depends on how well it is written.
To Anti-Hacking
The only way to make a computer 100% hacker proof is to disconnect it from the internet or turn it off. Since this simply isn't feasible, the security-minded computer user attempts to make it 99% secure. There are a few common ways to accomplish this task.
They are:
* Firewalls
* Software
* Basic Computer Precautions
Our information on firewalls is on our firewall page.
The information on the may types of software is on our software page.
The basic computer precautions to follow are:
* Don't give out e-mail address to someone you don't know. This can cause unwanted emails or advertising material you don't want (spam).
* The opening of any mail-not just attachments-is potentially dangerous to your computer. Even just the previewing of an infected email can do the damage.
Well, a lot more to discuss in prevention hackers, advised to do more searching in various website. That's all for today ^^
Useful link prevent hack I, II, III
First of all we start from Firewalls
Firewalls monitor incoming and outgoing online internet traffic on your computer. They examine incoming and outgoing data, acting like a filter to strain out the unwanted data and connections from the wanted data and connections. There are many excellent firewalls available for downloading off the internet for little or no charge.
A Firewall works similar to a door. It lets good things in and keeps the bad things out. Good firewalls will actively block any malicious incoming traffic while still allowing you to use the internet. Most firewalls will also prevent your computer from connecting to unwanted servers and from sending personal data to other computers or internet sites.
Now move to Internet Security
A major part of Internet security is having a firewall and anti-virus software. If a person stays on secure sites, and doesn't give out credit card numbers to any unsecure site to buy anything, they should be okay. When buy things on the Internet, one should stay on well-known sites with many users and traffic. This makes it harder for hackers to find credit card numbers and personal infromation. The software that is used by corporations is constantly getting better. It is more secure, almost impossible to hack into, and has excellent overall security. Encryption is used the popular web browsers, which makes it more secure.
What is Encryption?
Encryption is a security technique used to help prevent information from being intercepted on the internet. Encryption involves encoding any information sent between two computers so that only those two computers can read and understand the information. If a third party should happen to intercept the data, it would be illegible and completely useless without the key to unlock the code. Today, most popular browsers such as Netscape and Microsoft Internet Explorer contain encryption capabilities.
What to do when Downloading Security?
When downloading software or any data make sure you are on a trusted site. Also a firewall is a good protector from invasions through downloads. Anti-virus software is also a must when it comes to downloading any information or software from the internet. The anti-virus software can scan what you are downloading to make sure there are no viruses in the information or software you are receiving (I'm personally using Avast Anti-virus).
What Software?
Along with a firewall, software is the next most important block against hackers, viruses, etc. The most commonly used items today include: anti-trojan software and anti-virus software.
Anti-Trojan software reveals spys and hackers that are invading your computer privacy. A trojan is a program that is made up of two parts, the client and the server. Once you activate the server(clicking on it) it hides itself in your computer and opens all ports allowing hackers to access your computer. Some trojans steals passwords and send them to hackers through email. Also, some trojans allow the hacker to get into the hard drive which is very dangerous. But, the most dangerous and complicated trojan is the remote administration trojan, through this, the hacker can do about anything-seeing everything you type, all your passwords, dial up accounts, and pretty much anything they want.
Anti-Virus Software finds and deletes viruses from our computer files, and most anti-virus software will update itself for new viruses. Even if you have anti-virus software you should keep back-up files of your important data.
More info in Anti-Virus
Even before a person connects their computer to the internet they should have an excellent anti-virus software. Most of the good software out there today has a remote server that can automatically update your virus protection.
You can also install a scanner that stays in your memory and scans all files before you open them, this is especially handy when using floppy disks.
To fully fight viruses you must know how they work. How they infect other files. Viruses can be made by overwritting the beginning of the file replacing it with their own infected code; usually these viruses are easy to detect because the program itself won't work, just the virus will. They also can be made adding a jump to the end of the file, where its code is located, and then continuing with a jump back to the beginning where it left off; these are usually harder to detect except they use a little bit more memory. The last type is the virus attached to the beginning of the file, but it doesn't change the makeup of the original. This the hardest to detect but this depends on how well it is written.
To Anti-Hacking
The only way to make a computer 100% hacker proof is to disconnect it from the internet or turn it off. Since this simply isn't feasible, the security-minded computer user attempts to make it 99% secure. There are a few common ways to accomplish this task.
They are:
* Firewalls
* Software
* Basic Computer Precautions
Our information on firewalls is on our firewall page.
The information on the may types of software is on our software page.
The basic computer precautions to follow are:
* Don't give out e-mail address to someone you don't know. This can cause unwanted emails or advertising material you don't want (spam).
* The opening of any mail-not just attachments-is potentially dangerous to your computer. Even just the previewing of an infected email can do the damage.
Well, a lot more to discuss in prevention hackers, advised to do more searching in various website. That's all for today ^^
Useful link prevent hack I, II, III
21 October 2010
The Story of Pencil and Eraser
Pencil: I'm sorry
Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.
Pencil: I'm sorry cos you get hurt because of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.
Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. Smile :)
I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way... they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on). Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.
"All my life, I've been the pencil.. And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day. For I know that one day, all that I'm left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have..."
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